24 Days of Pleasure & Play at SHAG: Your Fantasy, Unlocked

• Identify what you actually enjoy (versus what you think you “should”)
• Get turned on without external stimulation
• Understand power dynamics you like, even if you don’t want them IRL
• Explore roles, sensations, and scenarios safely
• Build confidence expressing desire

And here’s the key: Fantasies don’t define you — they express you. They don’t have to match your identity, your real-world choices, or your comfort zone.
They’re allowed to be weird, soft, bold, cinematic, or confusing. There is no “normal.”
There is only what feels thrilling to imagine.

✍️ Guided Fantasy-Writing Exercise
(5–10 minutes, no editing, no judgment)
Open your notes app, a journal, or a random scrap of paper.
Take a breath.
Let go of performance. Complete this sentence:

“In my ideal fantasy, I am…” 

Let the first thought arrive without censorship. Then answer, in a few words or sentences:

1. Where are you?
2. Who else is there (if anyone)?
3. What’s the vibe or energy?
4. What do you want to feel emotionally?
5. What happens next that makes the fantasy exciting?

Don’t write a plot.
Write sensation, energy, and desire. Treat it like a sketch, not a screenplay. If your mind goes blank:
That’s normal — and sometimes a sign you haven’t asked yourself what you want in a while. Stay curious.

🎄 Holiday Fantasy Prompts
Festive, filthy, or feral — choose your seasonal flavor
If you want a more playful, seasonal direction, pick ONE of these and write for 2–5 minutes.
No editing.
Just follow the heat.

✨ The Cabin
“You’re snowed in with someone who’s been giving youThat Look all night.
The fire is crackling, the lights are low, and neither of you is pretending to be cold anymore.
What happens when you stop trying to be polite?”

✨ Mistletoe Mischief
“You and someone you’re wildly attracted to keep getting ‘accidentally’ pushed under the mistletoe.
You’re both trying to be good… until you stop caring who’s watching.”

✨ The Holiday Party
“You slip away from a crowded party with someone who’s been flirting in glances and touch.
A locked room, soft music, and a secret that makes the whole night feel electric.
What happens when you’re finally alone?”

✨ Gifts & Secrets
“Someone gives you a gift that is clearly not meant for public opening.
The card just says: ‘Open later — when I can watch.’
What do you do when you’re finally alone?”

✨ Snow Day Strangers
“You’re stuck at an airport or train station with a stranger whose energy is magnetic, disarming, and a little dangerous.
There’s time to kill, drinks to sip, and chemistry that feels cinematic.
How does the night unfold?”

✨ Seasonal Role Play
“You and someone you trust are playing characters — flirty, ridiculous, or dangerously confident.
The costumes are silly, but the tension is serious.
How does play turn into something real?”

✨ Silent Night (Not Quiet)
“You’re under blankets with someone who knows exactly how to touch you…
but you have to stay quiet because there are people in the next room.
What kind of trouble do you get into anyway?”

✨ Holiday Reunion
“You see someone you used to hook up with, and the spark is instant.
History, nostalgia, and unresolved tension collide under twinkle lights.
Who makes the first move — and what do they say?”

✨ The Gift Exchange
“You’re trading gifts with someone you’re attracted to, and every choice feels flirtatious, personal, and charged.
Your gift for them isn’t just sweet — it’s suggestive.
How do they react when they open it?”

✨ The Snowed-In Power Shift
“You’re trapped together overnight — no phones, no obligations, just heat, blankets, and a low-burning dominance dynamic neither of you has admitted.
Who breaks the tension first?”

❄️ Writing Tips (If You Feel Shy)

• Don’t try to make the fantasy “sexy.”
Let that happen later.
• Focus on vibe, tension, atmosphere.
The heat comes from anticipation.
• Write badly on purpose.
Messy writing is often the most honest.
• You don’t have to finish the scenario.
You just have to start it.
• Fantasies don’t need endings —
they need openings.