Dear Dixon,
I'm a guy who really likes rough sex, slapping women around (consensually), and I guess you might say BDSM. My current partner also really enjoys this, and she really wants me to "fuck her face." The thing is, she doesn't have the best set of teeth and although I think it would be REALLY hot to do this, and I have enjoyed doing this with other people, I'm afraid that it would really hurt. When she just gives me a regular blow job, I feel her teeth grazing my shaft and it is borderline painful. I know it's not her fault, and I really want to help her live out her fantasies! Do you have any suggestions as to how we can make this happen?
Scratched Up...
Dear Scratched,
How about some braces? JUST KIDDING. But, have you heard of a
spider gag? Basically it consists of a (usually steel) ring that goes in the mouth with loops welded on each side, to which a rope/strap can be attached. I don't know what level of "BDSM" you are into, but that could be a nice way to keep her mouth sufficiently open. There are also ring style gags, which are just a ring that goes into the mouth (without the loops on the side) and can be made from any material. Many of these, however, are not big enough for the penis to pass through, and are more for the humiliating drooling effect that it can cause.
However, gags are not for everyone, and it will just depend on what you both are into and comfortable with. If you are both ok trying this, you will have to pay very close attention, and make sure she is safe. You will also want to incorporate a safe hand symbol that she can use if things get too intense, instead of a "safe word," since her speech will probably be impaired. If you guys are not comfortable using this method, you may have to think of other devious ways to put her in her place...
Another cute idea might be to tell her to suck you off, then if her teeth touch you, you "punish" her, via a method you both enjoy. With a few creative twists you can make any fantasy a fun and safe experience!
